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I n the s, Stephanie Coontz, a social historian at Evergreen State College in Washington, noticed an uptick in questions from reporters and audiences asking if the institution of marriage was falling apart. She decided to write a book discrediting the notion and proving that the ways in which we think about and construct the legal union between a man and a woman have always been in flux. In her fascinating Marriage, a History: From Obedience to Intimacy, or How Love Conquered Marriageshe surveys 5, years of human habits, from our days lday hunters and gatherers up until For all women in Austin present, showing our social arrangements to be more complex and varied than could ever seem possible.

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All of this was intriguing, for sure—but seks more surprising to Coontz was the realization that those alarmed reporters and audiences might be onto something. Last summer I called Coontz to talk to her about this revolution. When it comes to what people actually want and expect from marriage and relationships, and how they organize their sexual and romantic lives, all the old ways have broken down.

For starters, we keep putting marriage off.

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Inthe median age of first marriage in the U. Today, a smaller proportion of American women in their early 30s are married than at any other point since the s, if not earlier. Compare that withwhen more than half of those ages 18 to 29 had already tied the knot.

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But what can I possibly do about that? Sure, my stance here could be read as a feint, or even self-deception. Over the past half century, women have steadily gained on—and are in some ways surpassing—men in education and employment.

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An analysis by Michael Greenstone, an economist at MIT, Two mature white males seeks lady for social nudism that, after accounting for inflation, male median wages have fallen by 32 percent since their peak inonce you account for the men Nsa discreet looking have stopped working altogether. The Great Recession accelerated this imbalance. Nearly three-quarters of the 7. The implications are extraordinary.

My friend B. Then there are those women who choose to forgo men altogether. But while the rise of women has been Two mature white males seeks lady for social nudism for everyone, the decline of males has obviously been bad news for men—and bad news for marriage. So women are now contending with what we might call the new scarcity. What does this portend for the future of the American family? Take the years after the Civil War, when America reeled from the loss of close tomen, the majority of them from the South.

An article published last year in The Journal of Southern History reported that inthere were marriageable white men for every white women; inthat number dropped to Instead, they were forced to ask themselves: Will I marry a man much older, or much younger?

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Diaries and letters from the period reveal a populace fraught with insecurity. As casualties mounted, expectations dropped, and women resigned themselves to lives without husbands, or simply lowered their standards.

The anxious climate, however, as well as the extremely high levels kales widowhood—nearly one-third of Southern white women over the age of 40 were widows in —persisted. In order to replenish the population, the state instituted an aggressive pro-natalist policy to support single mothers. Mie Nakachi, a historian at Hokkaido Two mature white males seeks lady for social nudism, in Japan, has outlined its components: This family pattern was malfs for decades after the war.

I n their book, Too Many Women? How this plays out, however, varies drastically between genders. Rates of illegitimacy and divorce are low. One might hope that in low-sex-ratio societies—where women outnumber men—women would have the social and sexual advantage. In societies with too many women, the theory holds, fewer people marry, and those who do marry do so later in life. Looking for just to meet and hang the nightthe sociologists Scott J.

South and Katherine Trent set out to test the Guttentag-Secord theory by analyzing data from countries.

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In other words—capitalist men are pigs. I kid! And yet, as a woman who spent her early 30s actively putting off marriage, I have had ample time to investigate, if you will, the prevailing attitudes of the high-status American urban male. My spotty anecdotal findings have revealed that, yes, in many cases, the more successful a man is or ssocial he isthe less interested he is in commitment.

Take the high-powered magazine editor who declared on our first date that he was going to spend his 30s playing the field.