Dancing is one of those inescapable facts of life. It comes up over and over again in social situations. You might as well learn to become passable at it.
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Guys often see dancing as a skill to show off. Being 'better' than other dudes on the dance floor is important to them. A woman's concept of a good dancer is a closer to a passably moving guy who looks comfortable, confident, tp like he's having fun. When a dronks wants to dance with you, all she really wants is that You are there with her You are dancing with her You are not dancing horribly.
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This totally sounds like a simplistic stereotype, but most of the time when you're dancing with a guy he's not making a detailed critique of your style. Nee probably just thinking, "Yay!
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Also, like the point above mentioned, your average dancer is more preoccupied with how they look than anything. It's better to reel yourself in. Over reaching and being 'that guy' is worse than blending in and being a bit cance and unoriginal. Don't feel you have to pull off tons of new moves every second and put on a show for everyone either.
bave It's okay to dance in a simple, repetitive way and just enjoy your friends' company. You know when you're watching a movie or TV show and there's a scene set in a dance club, how the extras in the background will often to be dancing in a kind of simple, nondescript way? That's the 'core' I'm talking about. Divorced women xxx you know how to do that, then in a lot of situations that's actually all you need.
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Now try moving your arms back and forth to the woth slightly, while keeping your legs ramrod straight. You'll notice that looks totally off. So the next most basic thing you've got to do is bounce up and down on your knees. So keep everything else still, and just move your knees up and down to the music.
That still looks weird, since you're just going up and down like a piston. So rotate your torso a bit in time with your knee movements, a little like you're skiing. Keep your torso fairly loose and relaxed. That's looking better, but your arms are still stiffly hanging at your side.
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Like I said, sometimes that's all you need. If you didn't know how to dance at all, and stopped right here, that's a lot better than nothing.
However, while still staying in the realm of dancing in a super generic 'core' way, you can do little things to spice up the bare minimum: Don't just limply swing your arms, get your shoulders into it.
Take steps side to side, or back and forth. Mix up your arm movements. Nod your head. Do little pivots or twists on one foot, or both feet. partenr
Don't just slightly rotate your torso, move it back and forth, or from one side to the other. Pick up one foot ever so slightly, then the other, to kind of march in place. Don't overdo the movement ho look like a robot, just move your feet a tad.
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Mix up the possible arm, torso, and leg variations. Find a combination that looks good and do it for a while, then switch to another one. Don't mix things up to the point where you're doing something new every half a second.
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If you try to pull off some awesome routine and bungle the execution you'll look clueless or goofy. You need to practice to make sure you look good.
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Through online video tutorials. Through dancing-oriented video games. By experimenting and trying to come up with some moves of your own. By taking an actual class. If you get into the habit of dancing around at home in the spare moments you're listening to music it won't be long before you start to get the hang of things. After that the more time you put in, the more you'll refine your style.
Get in front of a mirror, put some good music on, and start dancing to it in the basic way I mentioned above.
Remember, if your instinct is to jump around a lot or be a bit spazzy, consciously tone yourself down. Try to get comfortable with the typical, boring way of dancing first. Ot lot of the time on actual dance floors you won't even have that much room anyway, so if you only practice moves that requires a lot of space you'll be put in an awkward spot when you Naughty wives wants real sex Warren up somewhere more crowded.
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