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Jonathan Schoolera Looking to relax while im in town professor at the University of California at Santa Barbaraoffered a cautionary tale. A recent family trip to Norway intended for relaxation became an exercise in frustration instead because he thought he could fit in a little work along the way.

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She stopped checking e-mail, partly because the town has poor cellphone reception. She really relaxed. She returned to hundreds of e-mails, but not only did she survive, so did her vacation. Does anyone know what goes with barbecued cod? Tell us what you think. Please upgrade your browser.